Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Complete




I just wanted to fill you all in on some of the amazing details of the past few days. William and Philip and I are home and doing great. A new baby is such a joy, and of course, we think little William is perfect. A few pictures are attached – I’m sure there will be many more to come! Giving birth to William was the most amazing experience of my entire life. The experience, and William’s life so far, has helped me understand in a new way just how good our God is. He is faithful to answer prayers. He is great enough to be the author and sustainer of life. He always knows what he is doing – truly, His ways are higher than our ways, and his thoughts are higher than our thoughts. And, oh, how He must love his children! Here are a few details on how God has provided for our little family over the past few days.

My water broke at 2 am Friday morning, the very day of William’s due date. Philip and I headed to the hospital, me rejoicing that our baby was soon to arrive – and laughing that he was right on time! Although my water had broken, by 6 am, labor wasn’t progressing much on his own. They gave me Pitocin to speed up labor, and the Dr gave me my epidural shortly thereafter. Thanks to the epidural, labor seemed so fast, and I was able to enjoy it and keep up my strength (I strongly recommend that any woman having a baby give herself this gift). By 3:30 pm, I was ready to start pushing. So far, it had been a typical "textbook" labor according to my L&D nurse. William was delivered at 4:15 pm, a healthy baby boy weighing 7 pounds, 6 ounces, and measuring in at 21 inches long.

After William was delivered was when things got scary. I began having a lot of pain, as the Doctor and nurses kept ‘massaging’ (aka, pushing really hard on) my uterus. I noticed that they hadn’t brought William to me, but had sent him over to the little warmer in the corner of the room. I overheard someone comment that I was bleeding a lot and they needed to stop it. Very quickly, the room started buzzing and the number of people working on my went from 2 (Dr and Nurse) to 8. I was fully awake… and started getting scared when I heard phrases like “Do we need to get her an Operating room?” “may need a blood transfusion” “blood pressure is 60/40” and “may have to do an emergency hysterectomy.” I started getting really weak and just turned my focus on 1. Praying and 2. Breathing. The Doctors sent Philip out of the room to go with William to the nursery, and provide our families with an update. One of the people working on me (from anesthesiology) told Philip to kiss me goodbye before he left. That was an emotional moment for both of us. Philip

Our parents and friends in the waiting room immediately kicked into prayer mode – and I was at peace knowing that I would be covered in prayer. I was even told that one of the doctors prayed over me! The Doctors were able to find the source of the bleeding, and stop it. The situation stabilized, and despite a big scare, the loss of a lot of blood, and some extra soreness for the road ahead, I am completely fine. Praise God!

I think that my mom summed it all up with words better than I can:

So here's what I've learned:
1. A hospital like Tx. Women's in the Medical Center of Houston is awesome. Pregnancy, labor, delivery--none of it is routine. It may seem like it is these days, because it most often is, but as Lauren's L&D nurse said, "This is why no one should ever even consider having a baby at home."
2. The value of friends, family, friends of family, family of friends, friends of friends, and even complete strangers who will drop everything and pray is unbelievably powerful. Many of you texted messages to us like "2 prayer teams from 2 churches praying" and "praying non-stop" and "lifting L, P, W up in prayer." On July 17, 2009 we personally witnessed the power of prayer, as well as God's healing touch. There is no way we could have done this alone.

I will leave you with a moment from late the night of William's birth that I cannot thank God enough for and one I hope that may enable me to get a bit of rest, that of tears streaming down Lauren’s pale, exhausted face, her holding William, looking at her tired, tearful husband and saying, “Our little family is complete.”

14 comments:

Mindy Rives said...

Congratulations Lauren and Philip! I am thrilled for you both and I cannot wait to meet baby William! He is just precious!! I'm so thankful that everything went well with the delivery and that you are OK. I will pray that you find rest and have a quick recovery over the next few weeks. Love you, friend!

Lindsay said...

What a beautiful family! I can't wait to see you all soon! So thrilled everything ended on a happy note - I can't imagine the roller coaster of emotions that day!

Annie said...

Lo! Yay, you posted. Wow, and you did it during your "spare" time with baby! Well, I am so glad you posted because I just posted the baby stuff on my blog, and I was nervous that I would have done it too early. Now I know I didn't! :)
Well I am glad things are going so well, can't wait to see you on Monday!

Greg, Melissa, and Luke said...

Lauren, CONGRAULATIONS on perfect little William. Elizabeth has been filling me in. So sorry about the scare...glad to know you are ok and doing good! I would love to bring ya'll dinner and meet the little man. Also, thanks for the reassurance on Tx. Womens! I will know I am in good hands. I HOPE I get your nurse. What was her name???? I am adding you to our blog...www.babyjonesandfamily.blogspot.com hope to see you soon! Melissa

Ellen said...

Congratulations to you and Philip! Little William is just as cute as can be! I am so glad that despite your scare after delivery you are okay! Your mom filled my dad in on the story and I cannot imagine all the emotions that you all went through on that day. How precious baby William is! Hope to see you all soon!

Caroline said...

Lauren, i am so so happy for you guys! William is perfect! So thankful for the Lords provision for and protection over you that day! I love you dear friend!

Mary Pat said...

Congratulations!! We can't wait to meet William!

It's so special that you wrote out exactly what happened the day that he was born...he will love reading that when he is older!

Unknown said...

Congratulations!!!! I love love love you and can't wait to meet William. You continue to inspire me with your strength and joy and love....

Leah said...

Congratulations, Lauren! So thankful that the Lord took care of you. :)

Megan said...

Hey Lauren and Philip and Baby William! So glad you are all home and feeling good enough to blog! It was so hard to hear about your delivery - I wish I could have known at those moments and been on my knees in prayer for you. We were thinking of you - just knowing that your due date was here and waiting to hear news about sweet William. I am so thankful for the outcome and God's presence with you during that time - although, I wish it could have been different for you! How awesome to know that nothing came as a surprise to God and He was in control the entire time! Hard to understand His ways sometimes :) William is PRECIOUS! We will have to drive down to Houston soon to meet him! Now you have to update your blog regularly so we can keep up with him :)
I wanted to call you, but also remember being too tired/foggy/overwhelmed to talk much on the phone! Know that we are thinking of you and praying for you and rejoicing in your miracle!!!

The Bethancourts said...

Welcome Mr. William P. Lukefahr!

Congrats! Y'all are going to love having the little fellow around. I might be partial, but these boys sure are fun to have! Can't wait to see and hear more about the little man. Hope your recovery goes smoothly and that you can cherish all the time you have with WPL even those night hours :) Believe it or not, those late nights will go fast...

Love y'all,
Phillip, Cami, and Nathan

Kristin said...

What a beautiful recap of such a special occassion! Congratulations to your new family!

Jenni said...

Congrats on your little bundle of joy!! He is absolutely precious! I am also glad to hear you are doing well. it is fun that there will be several little ones close to the same age!! I am so happy for your little family!

Natalie J. said...

Congratulations on such a beautiful bundle of joy! Best wishes and God bless.